TEN REASONS Why
You Should Send Your Child To An Islamic School ?
Children spend
seven to eight hours every day in school, learning and socializing with friends.
Naturally, kids tend to learn and copy from their surrounding behaviors, most
commonly in the elementary level, therefore the influences of friends and
teachers have the power in shaping the attitudes and values of your children.
This is why as parents; we have to ask ourselves whether we should send our
kids to an Islamic school or a public school. It’s our responsibility to make
the right decision, by asking important questions
1. Same level of
education
When it comes to
education, both public and Islamic schools provide the same educational
program. Hence, you do not have to worry about missing out on education; your
kids will be learning a good academic program just like in public schools. One
that will teach them everything required to be prepared for any next step in
education.
2. Presence of
Islamic environment
The environment we are surrounded by has a major influence
on our beliefs, values, and ethics, especially on youngsters who are still
developing those core matters that shape who they are and what they do.
Exposing and raising your young ones in a well-conducted environment, which is
a lack in most public schools, is the key to building good manners and Islamic
fundamentals in your kids. The general environment of an Islamic school is
built based on Islamic core values, therefore it is well-controlled in terms of
sexuality, drugs, alcohol, and violence; the major issues that are a nightmare
to every parent living in non-Muslim countries. By not exposing your children
to those dangerous issues in the first place help a lot in raising them
correctly. Islamic schools have an environment of good-conduct, identity and
security; the ideal place to be exposed to.
3. Freedom of
practicing Islamic rituals
You’ve
definitely heard of a girl who’s had her hijab ripped off in a public school.
Kids teasing her, and making fun of her for being a Muslim, for being
different. Unfortunately, it’s a matter that is present in most schools, and
it’s because the western media have shaped Muslims into uncivilized imprudent
people. Muslim kids get exposed to verbal and physical violations every day in
public schools. Such violations will have a negative influence on our kids
which might lead to psychological and emotional problems, because fitting in
will not be an easy thing. We do not want our kids go through the harsh
treatment. We want them to have freedom in practicing what they believe in, in
the most comfortable manner. Therefore, sending them to Islamic schools where
they can comfortably pray, put the hijab, or read the Qur’an is suitable.
4. Learning to read the Holy Qur’an
Fortunately,
Islamic schools put a major focus on teaching the Holy Qur’an. Something which
they can do on behalf of you. Teaching the Holy Qur’an is our responsibility as
parents. Our kids should learn how to read and understand the Qur’an, because
it’s the first and most important guidance for Muslims’ life. If they learned
and build their fundamentals based on the Qur’an, you can be quite sure that
your kids will turn into ethical and decent people when grown up.
5. Learning Arabic
Language
One of the
downsides of living in western countries is that our kids tend to speak better
English than Arabic, and in some cases Arabic might be totally neglected.
Public schools do not offer Arabic language classes at all, therefore the
opportunity to learn our home-country language is not obtainable. On the other
hand, giving private Arabic lessons might be extremely costly and might not be
enough to yield a good base of the language. While in Islamic schools, long
time and efforts are devoted to learning Arabic, where your kids can easily
master.
6. Learning basic
Islamic values
One of the
valuable benefits of Islamic schools, is that your kids get exposed to Islamic
knowledge. They get to learn more about their religion and its values. They get
to learn Hadith, Dua’a, and Quran recitation and explanation. By naturally
forcing them to learn about their religion in school, will prevent you the headache
of finding a private teacher do so at an extra time and effort from your kids.
7. Teachers that
you can trust
At a young age,
teachers serve as a role model in our life. We don’t only learn from teachers,
but we tend to copy what they do, and listen to their instructions in most
cases, because we perceive them to be as our guidance. Therefore, putting your
child seven to eight hours with a teacher whom you can trust to give the right
guidance is a peace of mind. A teacher with good intentions and Islamic spirit
can have a positive influence on your kids’ behaviors and morals.
8. Halal food
guaranteed
Serving Food is
a major practice of any school. Children especially minors do not know or
actually do not care what are the ingredients of the food they are eating. All,
they know is that they are hungry and want to eat that yummy hot food. This is
why exposing them to the right food choices is very important to guarantee our
children are eating pork- free and halal food. Islamic schools are guaranteed
to serve quality halal food, which is why you will have peace of mind about
what your kids are eating away from your eyes.
8. Good friends
We all know
about peer pressure and how it can lead our children to abyss. It is your
responsibility as parent to control this matter as much as possible. Exposing
them to people of the same beliefs and values, will lead them to having good
friends who will most likely have a good influence instead of bad. The
opportunity to making and keeping good friends with Islamic values in an
Islamic school is much higher. The biggest problem in most public schools is
that our children’s chances of making bad friends are higher, because they are
more likely to be surrounded with friends who has different sets of morals and
values that are against those of Muslims’. Islamic schools have much more
control over that, because Islamic schools are full of kids whose parents also
want their child to be surrounded by people of the same values, morals, and
beliefs.
10. Shaping a good
personality
A person’s
character and personality is largely established during childhood. By the age
of 7, your child has established 90% of his/herpersonality traits that can
predict their future character. We stay pretty much the same throughout our
lives, from early childhood all the way to adulthood. Therefore, the
personality traits you observe in first grade children, tend to be a strong
prediction of their behaviors in adulthood. Life events, culture, and all our
surroundings tend to have an influence on shaping our personalities as well as
our core values and beliefs. Exposing your children to a well-conducted environment
like that of Islamic schools, could lead to building the right set of values
and beliefs in your children, as well as a good strong personality that will
shape who they are and how they behave as grown ups
In conclusion,
as good parents it is our responsibility to take the right
decision for our children, because where they stay every day for seven to eight
hours will largely influence their values, beliefs, morals and personalities in
the future. Now you got an idea what benefits you and your children can gain
from sending them to an Islamic school, and taking a wise decision became an
easy task.
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